Dr. Darnell A. Durrah

Stepping into private practice has been both exhilarating and humbling for me, marking a significant shift from my long-standing career in the Army. As I navigate this transition, one thing has become abundantly clear: authenticity is my north star.

From the outset, I’ve been committed to presenting myself online exactly as I am in person – flaws and all. Engaging with my patients about what drew them to my profile has been eye-opening, offering valuable insights into how I’m perceived and prompting me to continually refine my online presence to stay true to myself.

Being a black male psychologist, I’ve always felt a deep sense of responsibility to represent and connect with diverse communities. While my past experiences have predominantly revolved around working with a specific demographic, I’ve come to realize that my skills transcend boundaries. The feedback I’ve received about the warmth and personability of my profile has only reinforced this belief, reminding me of the power of authenticity in fostering trust and understanding.

But perhaps the most poignant feedback came from a new patient who confessed that it was my smile in my profile picture that drew them in. It struck a chord with me, emphasizing the profound impact of something as simple as a smile in forging connections and instilling comfort – especially in a field where empathy reigns supreme.

In addition to my clinical work, I’ve recently resumed the Daddy Durock Show, a personal podcast where I delve into the diverse journeys of men from different walks of life. It’s been a passion project of mine, allowing me to explore and celebrate the unique experiences and perspectives that shape us as individuals.

So, as I continue to navigate this journey, I urge my fellow therapists to embrace authenticity with open arms. Let’s infuse our online presence with the raw, unfiltered essence of who we are, and let’s not forget to smile – because sometimes, a genuine smile can speak volumes and serve as a beacon of hope for those who need it most.